Alpha Male... or Alpha Duck?

On their way home from shopping one day, a man suddenly thinks that her wife’s family is not good enough for her. And so suddenly he started yelling at her, demanding that she never speak to her mother again. Following a few insults after that statement, he started yelling at her, threatening that if she speaks to her mother ever again, he shall kick her out of the house. And so between her confusion and her fright, she started to cry, which triggered her husband to pull out a gun, and cock it in front of her. Since that was the first time the wife ever saw her husband hold a gun in his hand, she was in great shock! Her eyes were wide open but she couldn’t see.
Her husband’s voice was echoing in her mind, that she couldn’t think. All she could do is whimper. The more she tried to pacify her husband, the more distraught he gets. At one point, he screamed at her saying, “…what are you crying about? What did I do? You crying means you’re sad being with me, and there’s nothing to be sad about!” And when she mumbled, “…alright, if you don’t like my family, I will stop seeing my mom”. This statement made him even more furious, and said, “…you shouldn’t do it because I don’t like your family, you should say you yourself don’t want to see your mother!”

When you’re a woman in your 40’s, totally in love with your cheating spouse, and your youngest not even in kindergarten, a godmother with three wishes isn’t enough to not kill yourself. At that age, you’d think she has seen enough to know the difference. As it seems, older isn’t synonymous to smarter these days. How did 2 Christians end up this way? As children of Christ, we believe in grace, and we all know that we didn’t deserve God’s love in the first place. But put that aside, how can a rational and independent woman pick up the pieces of her life and move on? I’d say, like any rational and independent woman, pick up the things that matter and start anew.

I, contrary as it may seems, believe that women in general should be submissive to men. Enough of that equal rights bull crap because I am definitely not going to give birth and bring home the coin at the same time. And at half of the character’s age, I hope that I forever remember to respect myself because men will treat you badly if you allow them to. Gone are the days when we’re minding our business and here comes our handsome prince who’ll sweep us off our feet (handsome is relative, what’s handsome for me, might not be handsome for you). Jaded to the point where we can feel our mind sneering at our heart. Bad boys sell like pancakes alright, but we can always go for waffles when you’ve realized there’s nothing special with pancakes. I personally would neither settle for a bad boy, nor the pancakes. Yummy waffles forever.

In the end, the wife up and left with her toddler, with just a few of her belongings. It will be hard to start anew, having been independent and forced to domestication. But crucial decisions need to be made. There is no point trying to put sense into violence. Men could think they’re all that, but if you think you’re alpha male, I’d call you Alpha Duck. (DU mb f* CK!)

Thanks for reading and please feel free to put your 2 cents worth…




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www.friendster.com/theryanne 01.June.08